Episode 42

Empathy Is an Edge If You Know How to Use It - with Maria Ross

Published on: 12th March, 2024

Author and empathy advocate, Maria Ross busts myths about empathy and clearly defines what it is so that it can be effectively harnessed.

In this episode of the Happy Space podcast, Maria Ross, an author and empathy advocate, shares her life-changing experience of surviving a medical trauma, highlighting the role of empathy in her recovery and its influence on her work. Maria discusses her books 'The Empathy Edge' and the soon to be released in fall 2024, 'The Empathy Dilemma,' emphasizing the operationalization of empathy in organizations and its importance in leadership. The conversation touches on common myths about empathy, its innate nature, and methods to cultivate it in business environments and personal lives. Maria and Clare explore the misconceptions surrounding empathy and sensitivity, advocating for a cultural shift towards more human-centered practices in business and personal spheres.

Maria Ross is a speaker, facilitator, author, and empathy advocate who believes cash flow, creativity, and compassion are not mutually exclusive. She’s spent decades helping forward-thinking leaders and teams connect and engage through empathy to accelerate growth and impact. Maria has authored multiple books, including her most recent title, “The Empathy Edge: Harnessing the Value of Compassion as an Engine for Success” and also hosts The Empathy Edge podcast.

Maria understands the power of empathy on both brand and personal levels: in 2008, shortly after launching her business, she suffered a ruptured brain aneurysm that almost killed her and inspired her memoir, “Rebooting My Brain”. In it, she explores the critical importance of empathy in healing and overcoming adversity. Her next book “The Empathy Dilemma: How Successful Leaders Balance Performance, People, and Personal Boundaries”, arrives on shelves in Fall 2024.

CHAPTERS

03:06 The medical emergency that started Maria’s journey

07:38 Operationalizing empathy in organizations

12:17 Busting empathy myths part 1

17:31 The connection between empathy and highly sensitivity people

21:00 Toning your empathy muscle

24:04 Busting empathy myths part 2

26:51 “Empathy circles” and having powerful conversations

30:26 Empathy and gender in leadership

36:28 Having better experiences surrounding layoffs

39:55 Empathy in personal relationships

LINKS

For active links, visit www.clarekumar.com/podcast

The Empathy Edge: Harnessing the Value of Compassion as an Engine for Success by Maria Ross

The Empathy Dilemma: How Successful Leaders Balance Performance, People, and Personal Boundaries by Maria Ross

Rebooting My Brain: How a Freak Aneurysm Reframed My Life by Maria Ross

“The Empathy Edge” Podcast

TedX Talk: How to Trojan Horse Leaders into Being More Empathetic | Maria Ross

Talks at Google: Rebooting my Brain | Maria Ross

Clare’s HSP Quiz

Empathy Circles Website

Institute for Patient and Family-Centered Care

Awakening Compassion at Work

Phil M. Jones

Exactly What to Say: The Magic Words for Influence and Impact by Phil M. Jones

IMAGE CREDITS

The Empathy Edge book - Maria Ross

The Empathy Dilemma book - Maria Ross

The Empathy Edge Podcast logo - Maria Ross

Mark Cuban - Wikipedia

Empathy Circles logo - Edwin Rutsch

Empathy Circles tents - Edwin Rutsch

Phil M. Jone - philmjones.com

Exactly What to Say book - goodreads.com

Satya Nadella - Wikipedia

Other images - Canva


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Audio and Video Editing by: Jaclyn Enchin

Production Assistant: Rafael Dona

Song Credit: Cali by Wataboi / wataboi Creative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY-SA 3.0Music promoted by FDL Music • Cali - Wataboi · [Copyright-free Music]

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Productivity catalyst, highly sensitive executive coach, and speaker, Clare Kumar cultivates sustainable performance in busy professionals so they can keep making rich contributions in all areas of life and achieve greater fulfillment. She inspires leaders, professionals, employees and entrepreneurs to respect humanity and boost performance through marrying productivity and pleasure. After all, why shouldn’t you have fun while getting things done?